Kind encouragement, kept private

Notice the good. Keep it close.

Gentle Tally makes everyday effort visible with a calm family points ledger—without accounts, ads, or a central server.

See how it works Coming to iPhone & iPad

No accounts. No family cloud.

Gentle Tally household protection and nearby sync screen
The Gentle Tally family dashboard on iPhone
The family dashboard and private nearby sync screens.

Small moments add up

One tap. A shared record of what went right.

Keep encouragement quick enough for real life and clear enough for every caregiver.

01

Every point tells the story.

See the balance, the reason, who recorded it, and when it happened—all in one calm timeline.

Maya’s signed point activity in Gentle Tally
02

Recognize it in seconds.

Pick a direction, add the points, and leave a little context for the household.

Awarding points to Maya in Gentle Tally
03

Add caregivers. Skip the cloud.

A temporary nearby invite welcomes the people you trust—no shared password required.

A temporary caregiver invitation in Gentle Tally

Made for actual family life

How Gentle Tally works

  1. 01

    Start your household

    Add the children you care for and give your family ledger a name.

  2. 02

    Bring caregivers in

    Share a temporary QR code or AirDrop invite with someone nearby.

  3. 03

    Notice what matters

    Award or deduct points in seconds, with context everyone can see.

Gentle Tally showing nearby sync and data safeguards

Private by design

Your family ledger stays with your family.

Gentle Tally is local-first. Each caregiver holds a signed copy, and nearby devices exchange only the entries they are missing.

  • Complete file protection
  • Device-only signing keys
  • TLS 1.3 peer traffic
  • Append-only history

Three devices, one history.Start Nearby Sync while caregivers are together to exchange the entries each device is missing.

The practical questions

Frequently asked questions

Does Gentle Tally need an account?

No. Your household is created on-device. There is no sign-up, family profile, or central account database.

What happens with three caregivers?

Each approved device keeps its own signed ledger. During a Nearby Sync session, devices exchange missing entries, so updates can travel from one caregiver to the next without a central server.

Does it work offline?

Yes. Awarding points and viewing history are local-first. To exchange new entries, open Household and start Nearby Sync while another caregiver is nearby.

Can an old entry be erased?

No. The ledger is append-only. A correction becomes a new entry, preserving the household’s audit trail.

How is time kept consistent?

Gentle Tally uses Kronos-adjusted time and deterministic ordering so devices can agree on the sequence of events.

A gentler way to grow

Catch them doing something good.

Gentle Tally is coming to iPhone and iPad. Thoughtful recognition, shared privately.

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